SB Jacks Code of Conduct

SB Jacks (“SBJ”) is a private club governed by a set of rules that define how all of its members interact physically and socially in the context of the club. This includes all club-hosted events and group communications. All members and prospective members must read, understand and agree to adhere to these rules.

SB Jacks events are designed to be socially, emotionally and legally safe. To this end, every member agrees to understand, observe and maintain these rules. Because we value the club, and because we all understand that these rules make this unique experience possible, we are largely self-policing, though club volunteers are empowered to enforce the rules and intervene when necessary.


Like all true jack-off clubs, sexual activity is strictly limited to masturbation and mutual masturbation. Oral and anal sex are never permitted at SBJ events unless an event is specifically designed and advertised for that kind of activity. Unless permitted by the specific event in question, nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.

2) PERMITTED PLAY (by mutual consent)

  • Self-masturbation and consensual mutual masturbation

  • Erotic and friendly touch

  • Showing-off and watching (no touch)

  • Parallel penis-to-penis masturbation (“C2C”)

  • Frottage (rubbing bodies together)

  • Oral contact above the waist only (kissing, nipple nibbling, etc.)

3) PROHIBITED PLAY (unless allowed by a specific event)

  • No insertion (nothing goes inside anybody’s anything)

  • No anal contact (never even touch anyone’s butthole)

  • No docking (foreskin sharing)

  • No oral contact below the waist (no lips below the hips)

  • If you don’t have consent, you may not touch another member.


Minimum participation is stripping to a single article of underwear, a jockstrap or a T-shirt. Hats and fetish wear and gear are always permitted, and some themes will invite specific clothing. Never wear anything that might tear or cut skin.


  • Warn verbally before you ejaculate. Don’t just breathe heavily. Say it out loud with words.

  • Ejaculate on yourself, the floor or any canvas-covered surface.

  • Explicit, mutual consent is required before ejaculating on others.

  • Always thoroughly wipe up semen from the floor.

  • Avoid aggressive or prolonged urethra play.


Consent is required before touching another member’s body. This also applies to kissing. Remember: every person is in charge of their body. You own your body as does every other member you encounter at an event. Always ask before touching someone who hasn’t given consent. Be prepared to say “no” and always take “no” for an answer. Never press the issue. We treat each other with mutual respect and human dignity.


Never, at any time, disclose any member’s identity to anyone, either inside the event or out. Ever. What you do here, who you see here, stays here. Violation of any member’s identity is grounds for termination of membership.


Do not attend an SBJ event if you have or suspect that you may have a disease you can spread to other members in the course of an event. This includes common colds and flu, herpes outbreaks and staph infections. HIV is not considered communicable in the context of normal club activities. HIV-positive men are welcome to join the club and participate in events in accordance with our rules, as there is no evidence of transmission of the virus through mutual masturbation.


Never bring recreational drugs or alcohol of any kind to SBJ events, and do not arrive at events intoxicated. Intoxicated members will not be admitted or may be ejected from events. Problem behavior will result in termination of membership. All group events hosted by SB Jacks are designated alcohol- and drug-free.

“Poppers” ARE permitted.


Your body and hands should be clean when you attend an SBJ event. Take care of bad breath and excessive body odor before entering the play space. The club provides hand soap at all events as well as antibacterial moist wipes. Start every event with a trip to the washroom to wash your hands, whether you think you need it or not. Do not wear any fragrance to SBJ events.


Excessive chatter is discouraged during events. Quiet talk is okay, and hot talk is welcome at any volume. “Conversation” is another matter. Be friendly and sociable, but don’t distract others at the event. If you’re asked to lower your voice, do so. You are welcome to talk to fellow members about sex play that is not permitted in SBJ events. For example, while oral and anal sex are not permitted at most event, you can talk about it during the event as long as your fellow members don’t mind. Be yourself.


Paper wrist bands are offered at all events as an option for any member to use if he chooses. A RED wrist band means “don’t touch my penis.” A GREEN wrist band means, “anyone may touch my penis without asking first.” No band means ask (see rule 6). This consent shortcut must be 100% honored by every member at all times during every SBJ event. Paper bands are available at all events and can be found at check in.